Dunc the Punk,
Here is where I am so far from top to bottom.
First server ProLiant DL360: PFSENSE for router/firewall, other configurations soon.
Second server IBM x3455: ADDS, DHCP, DNS
Third server ProLiant DL380: Taken out
Third server PowerEdge 2950: I call it 8 gig because it has 8GB ram, and only has same config as the IBM for backup
Fourth server P.E. 2950: I call this on 12 gig for 12GB ram configured for IIS, FTP, WSUS, Remote Access, and the deployment role for PXEboot.
I have my Domain name registered (itnetman.net) which is working but defaults to the generic IIS page, the configuration works so I am proud of that part. I moved on to configuring ADDS with everyone in the house names and devices, and I have gained some extra knowledge since 2003 Server. DNS of course is working great on resolving, and can join computers and devices to the domain.
Group Policies is the next step that I will tool around with, I know how this works from 2003 Server but a refresher never hurt anyone. I think I watch at least 6 hours of tech videos a day ranging from Microsoft Virtual Academy, YouTube, and other sites and services. I have just about every IT book that I could get my hands on, old to new, and everything I watch or read, I apply it to the Lab.
Virtualization from what I have played with (1 installation) was very easy to install and configure one instance of Server 2012R2. In fact, I was installing VMware as I was typing this. You are correct this is a requirement as far as most of the companies I was looking into in Las Vegas. The reason I am jumping around with different things is because I am searching different companies and basing my learning around some of the particular requirements of them, and virtualization has been a predominant requirement. So I will be taking the advice you have provided.
The Dell servers will only see a combination of disks for a 2TB limit as far as the documentation, and for some reason the PERC 5i card does not see RAID 10 only RAID 0-5, its said that I need the PERC 6. The only thing I wanted to do was make a huge drive to put all of my music, books, movies, and software on it for the FTP server but I use my little NAS device for now.
You are also correct I do have the mental state and compassion to learn anything I need to dive in head first. My only fear is starting over with a new career. This has been a hobby for 28 or so years and I believe I am ready to dig in somewhere. Just wish I did not wait so darn long.
I apologize for the long winded reply, and hope to continue getting tidbits of advice, number 1 reason of joining Spice Works and has been great so far.