#1 When you were a child you will have no doubt fell off your bike and cut your knee, you got up, dusted yourself off and got back on your bike, after a while the cuts and bruises become a status symbol. Same here, never give up, get back on that ‘bike’ and keep riding.
#2 Print out a bunch of resumés and take them to places you know do IT, schools, colleges, universities, local businesses, ask them if they’ve any jobs going in the IT field and if you can leave your resumé for future endeavours. Some employees appreciate those who put the effort in. Others may have to go specific routes for candidates. It never hurts to try.
#3 Practise, if you don’t have a lab, get one, keep learning, don’t let your skillset fade, because the last thing you want when the interview does come, is to not know half of what is being talked about. Advise them that while you may have been looking for work, you’re still engaged in the technology side and continually improve yourself by learning at home, you could also mention you are an active community member of other IT pros.**
#4 Be prepared to start lower than you might like, at least this way, you’re in. You can show off your skills, pick up new ones and take it from there. It’s better to be employed seeking other opportunities than be unemployed, disheartened and struggling financially.
Don’t let it beat you down, most IT jobs do this anyway.
Short version, get back on the bike and keep riding, eventually you will get where you are going.
** I will also add, be active on here, especially helping others with their queries, there are headhunters who frequent here. Ask me how I know.